Shipping, Returns, and Customer Care

Last updated January 30, 2024


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Orders purchased with our free shipping (over $75) option will be shipped by UPS Ground or USPS. Our fulfillment window is typically 1-5 business days from the date an order is placed. Due to the ongoing Covid-19 pandemic, shipping carriers have adjusted their delivery estimates–once your order is shipped, your estimated delivery window is typically 7-10 business days or longer, unless you have chosen expedited shipping. Orders are processed Monday–Friday, excluding holidays.

In an effort to reduce packaging, all orders that contain more than one pair of earrings will ship on a single card holding multiple pairs, in one velvet bag. If you would prefer to have each pair sent on individual cards/bags, please leave this request in the "notes" section of your order during checkout.


Canadian orders over $150 USD ship for free. At this time, please note that we are unable to ship home goods or candles to Canada. We are unable to offer returns for Canadian orders; please keep this in mind before you place any order shipping to Canada. Please note that taxes, duties, and applicable shipping fees will be added to your order during checkout. Please reach out if you need any assistance with a Canadian order and we would be happy to assist you.


Once your order has been shipped, a confirmation email with a courier tracking number will be sent out within 48 hours.


The shipping courier is responsible for the delivery of your package. In the case of a lost or stolen package, it is the responsibility of the courier and all inquiries must be directed to them. We are not responsible for packages once proof of delivery is provided.

We do offer Order Protection as an option at checkout. This nominal fee provides replacements for all lost, damaged, and stolen packages. We highly recommend selecting this option on all orders.


We offer returns for U.S. customers only within 30 days of the delivery date. Items that are marked “FINAL SALE” including hard marked prices and/or use of a promotional code, including all beauty, burned/used candles, partner or "marketplace" items are only eligible for store credit or even exchanges. No refunds are issued for any "SALE" or "Gift with purchase" items.

Orders purchased using rewards points codes can be returned, but reward points are non-refundable.

Your item(s) must be unused, unwashed, and in the same condition that you received it, sent back to us with the original tags and in the original packaging. Orders that are not sent back in the original packaging will be eligible for store credit. Please note that shipping costs will not be refunded.

If your return arrives at Shop cupcakes and cashmere within 15 days of the date you received your package, there is no restocking fee. Returns that arrive past the 15 day period will have a $10 restocking fee deducted from their refund.

Click here to start your return/exchange. Your return will be reviewed and once approved, a pre-paid shipping label will be issued via email. Returns that have not been approved are not eligible for refund or store credit.


We can process exchanges for items that are defective or damaged. To begin your exchange, please click here. The exchange option will appear only if the requested item is in stock.


Once your return is received and inspected, we will send you an email to notify you that we have received your returned item. We will also notify you of the approval or rejection of your refund. Refunds will be processed within 7 to 10 business days of receipt. If you haven’t received a refund after two weeks, please contact your bank. It may take two weeks or more before your refund is officially posted. If you need assistance, please contact us at


For items marked as gifts that you wish to return, we’re happy to offer store credit. Once the returned item is received, a gift certificate for the value of the item will be emailed to you.


We will match any publicly advertised/listed price from another vendor.

If an item you purchased at regular price has gone on sale, we are happy to offer a price adjustment on qualifying items within 48 hours of the original purchase date.

If you have a discount code and forgot to use it at checkout, we regretfully cannot apply the discount post purchase. Please note that most discount codes are not valid on fine jewelry, sale items, or pre-orders.


Within two years from the date of purchase, we’ll replace your product if any damage to the material or the workmanship of the jewelry occurs. Send us an email with a photo and we’ll send you a replacement, if available (please note that final sale items are excluded from our replacement warranty). In addition, please note lost or stolen items and free gifts with purchase items are not eligible for replacement. Additionally, normal wear and tear (i.e. scratches, damage from mishandled/dropped items) is not covered under warranty.

We do not offer repair or resizing services. If your piece is defective and covered under the warranty period, please send your order number and a photo of the defective piece to All warranty claims must include a photo or the claim will be rejected.


We love when customers leave reviews on our products because it helps us determine what you love, what you don't, and what we need to work on. When leaving a review, please remain respectful. Reviews that include profanity, rude commentary, or disrespectful/unnecessary comments will not be published. If you're reviewing a product, please refrain from reviewing shipping or courier (UPS, USPS) issues. If you have a customer service issue with shipping or receiving your order, please contact us directly at and we would be happy to assist you.


Once you’ve subscribed to our email list you will receive an email with your welcome discount code. When you subscribe to our SMS list, a text window will open up with a pre-filled message. All you need to do is press send, and after a few moments you’ll receive a text message with your promo code. Please keep in mind that these codes are one-time use and cannot be applied to fine jewelry or sale items.